Reviewing Mya’s sexual performanceReviewing My Sexual PerformanceReviewing my Sexual Performance Part 1The planning: Lying in bed with hubby Marc in the late afternoon, I lay there exhausted but very satisfied, luxuriating in that wonderful feeling of loving sexual afterglow. Enjoying his soft caresses and delicate kisses, we lay in each other’s arms enjoying our lovemaking and reaffirming our love for each other. It had been a particularly satisfying and arousing session. I began tracing my fingers through the small pool of fresh warm semen he had just ejaculated over my rather chubby tummy… scooping it up in my fingertips I started to gently massage the sticky seed over my sweat covered breasts and nipples to hubby’s absolute delight. Leaning up on one elbow I smiled sexily at my loving husband, fluttering my eyelashes and widening my green eyes trying to look particularly alluring and thoughtful, I asked him if I still gave him pleasure after ten years of being his wife and did he still find me desirable especially now I was a more mature woman. He pushed me back on the bed and started gently teasing and licking my nipples and as I let out a soft moan of delight, he gently moved up and started kissing my lips, gently sucking my bottom lip and as I tilted my head back into the pillow he smothered my sensitive neck with delicate loving kisses which he drives me completely wild! I reached down and wrapped my slender fingers around his already hardening cock, giving a playful squeeze to keep him interested and to make sure I had his undivided attention, I said “well what do you think sweetheart, do you still find me sexually desirable now I’m a mature woman and how would you rate my performance in bed?” He let out a stifled laugh and replied that if he had to rate my performance he would probably give me a 8.5 out of ten! I feigned shock and surprise and asked him to explain why it wasn’t a score of ten! He was just joking of course and said he wanted to give me something to work up to! He knows I satisfy him in just every way possible, and as I was being distracted by his soft kisses, he went into great detail about what still exited him after ten years of being together. I had often wondered what my other lovers and sexual partners actually thought about my sexual performance over the years I had been shared wife and this got me thinking.A Little Background:I’m sure that after reading my blogs and stories you will know that I’m a very ordinary, rather curvy married woman but I do have a voracious sexual appetite and love sharing pleasures with both men and women. I know what I want but I wouldn’t describe myself as over confident or assertive and in fact I’ve always maintained a certain submissive willingness and acquiesce to please. I do enjoy having enough passion and confidence to show my hubby that I’m willing to give love and sexual pleasure to other partners in the most alluring way I know to satisfy our own married relationship. I’m on my second marriage…. my first when I was just eighteen, and even before I knew my current hubby Marc, I have willingly been involved in the swinging/sharing scene and as you can imagine I have enjoyed quite a few sexual encounters over the years. Although I don’t really like category’s and boxes to define people, it’s important for me to explain that we have a Stag/Vixen relationship…. hubby is a confident straight ‘Stag’ and I’m a willing ‘Vixen’ shared wife, I am not a whore! I absolutely love being married and pleasing hubby as he enjoys a vicarious relationship with me. We are very much in love and I’m really proud of him. He’s not a cuckold hubby and we definitely do not have any sort of power differential in our marriage and I would never cheat on him behind his back or humiliate him in any way. Likewise, I definitely wouldn’t allow him to be intimidated, but nevertheless he does enjoy me seeking pleasure and love with other guys and I’m happy to let him sit and watch “close up” as I fully satisfy other partners for our mutual pleasure and his sexual gratification and of course to maintain my own sexual desirability. Unfortunately he’s not particularly well endowed at just over 5” but he gets enormous pleasure masturbating and watching me having sex with guys who want to fully explore my curvy mature body. We love and trust each other implicitly and sharing my body and feelings is very much a part of our relationship. When I’m lucky enough to share my curvy body with other partners, I love to offer a truly exiting loving experience and passionate kissing and words of love are very much part of this pleasure. I love it when partners whisper how much they love me, it makes me feel so special and desirable and it brings us so much close. Rather than being jealous, has always encouraged me to exchange thoughts and words of love with my partners to fulfil my desires. For those of you who know me well, you will know I enjoy being sexually manhandled, it’s an acquired taste for many and can range from hard breast groping which I really enjoy, to more imaginative and extreme physical pleasures.Although not really the subject for this story, hubby does have a certain amount of penis envy and I’m sure sperm competition plays some part in his willingness to share me with other men who he believes are better equipped to satisfy me. When he makes love to me after one of my partners, he is so much more virile and spurts much more semen usually! His vicarious thoughts centre around seeing my sexual needs satisfied by guys who can offer the wonderful pleasures of being penetrated by a larger penis which he knows I need and desire from time to time. Anyone who knows me sexually knows that I love the feeling of a longer, thicker penis touching my cervix particularly during missionary style sex which unfortunately hubby’s penis can’t reach.. even if I lift up my legs to allow deeper penetration. Hubby produces relatively small amounts of semen when he ejaculates, so watching me having ‘bareback’ unprotected sex with a trusted partner is a very important part of hubby’s enjoyment and I’m happy to indulge in this wonderful pleasure for both of us as long as we have trust. As I’ve never been pregnant or given birth, guys often comment on what a tight fit my cunt is and I know hubby would love to see me being impregnated! The Sharing Scene: As you will be aware, we are no strangers to the private adult scene and over a period of several years we have both been enthusiastic members of mostly private parties and very occasionally, swingers clubs. With hubby’s support and encouragement I have had a fair amount of experience of giving and receiving pleasure from guys as well as women who love to enjoy the ‘forbidden fruit’ of a lovely sweet married woman like me! In order to satisfy both my husband’s desire to share me and my own voracious sexual appetite, I have Mecidiyeköy Escort made myself as a shared wife on quite a few occasions sometimes spending a few days with other guys, some single and some married, often bringing pleasures in ways that perhaps their wives simply won’t consider, not to belittle my hubby in any way, but to share my experiences with him afterwards to strengthen our love and mutual trust. Hubby is totally monogamous and has little desire to have sex with other women, I’m enough for him. As you might expect from a mature woman like me, I’ve enjoyed a number of experiences over the years with guys and a few women of all ages. I’ve enjoyed every type of threesomes, foursomes, occasional DP’s and I have been group fucked, enjoying the pleasures of several guys of varying ages. But other than the odd comment made at the time, I’d never actually asked what they thought about the experience of fucking me, I suppose I just accepted that they had enjoyed the experience and that was that. The idea of asking guys and maybe girls to actually rate my performance was actually quite exiting and we spent the rest of the evening talking about how we could set up an honest and accurate review of some sort. I realised I could potentially be setting myself up for a great deal of criticism with this idea but nevertheless I was determined to find out what other partners actually thought of my sensuality and physical performance. We talked about all the different options and scenarios of how I could ask sexual partners to offer an accurate review after having sex with me – do I ask old partners perhaps? maybe that was one idea but which ones and how would I even contact guys and would they even remember in some cases. After a great deal of thought we came up with some ideas….what if I had sex with a chosen number of interested people over a period of a few weeks and asked them to complete some sort of questionnaire/critique afterwards while it was still fresh in their minds. I could sense this was going to take some planning, if this was going to work, then we would have to agree to certain limitations to allow a fair comparison review. I was quite aware that I had been encouraged to share my likes and dislikes about what I enjoyed in my detailed Sexual Interview but this was turning the tables, this was an opportunity to discover what others truthfully thought of my sexual performance…the question was, how where we going to make it work? Some Ideas: I mulled the idea over in my mind for a couple of days and one option I thought of was perhaps a group session with say three or four guys at once which I know from experience is a very exhausting but pleasurable experience and one that really excites hubby… he loves to either watch or hear about all the intimate details and I love all the attention so it’s a win-win situation that we both love. However, we both dismissed this idea on the basis that it wasn’t really giving guys a true opportunity to have the individual attention I felt was necessary to offer my best and the same would apply to a threesome as well. Threesomes can work really well, but sometimes can be a little restricted by a reluctance to share and perhaps a certain amount of homophobia can be a problem. Some guys just don’t enjoy close sexual proximity with other guys and there’s nothing I can do about that.By now hubby was getting really excited and I really wanted him to buy into the whole idea but I also wanted it to be a shared experience for both of us. I wanted him to read through each review so I could describe every little detail for his ultimate pleasure…good or bad so he could see what other guys thought of his loving wife! So armed with ideas we started to think about which guys might be suitable candidates and interested in taking part. In casual conversation there appeared to be no shortage of willing potential participants who found me desirable and over the next few weeks hubby and myself discretely approached a few people we met up with regularly to ask if they might be interested in taking part. So after soliciting interest from quite a few guys, between us we drew up a shortlist of between eight and ten guys in the end from about fifteen possible candidates, although we decided to keep our options open as far as numbers were concerned. Clearly this was going to take some time and things often change. Well what was our criteria and what would be the boundaries? This was so difficult to agree and the most challenging. I felt we should agree on similar age participants who found me desirable, but hubby wanted me to take on a number of sexual partners of different ages and physicality to offer a diverse range of experiences to make up an accurate assessment. I was starting to be a little concerned about what ideas he might have in mind, so we started looking at our shortlist a little more closely but I did promise I would keep an open mind, after all this is my review! Setting the Boundaries: Initially we agreed that in line with the rules of club meetings and some of the private parties we attend, we would insist on the use of condoms unless the guys were happy to be tested. Yes I know it’s not everyone’s choice but that’s how it was going to be certainly to begin with anyway. Despite what you read, very few people have ‘bareback’ sex in the club scene unlike many years ago although quite a few couples indulge at private parties depending on how well you know the person and if they are tested and clean. In an effort to offer a different experience to my chosen partners, we both felt it was important to offer each guy a choice of spending the afternoon with me or even the whole night with me for the ultimate experience. Hubby wasn’t too keen on this idea to begin with but once I explained the benefits he finally relented. After all it’s no different to when I’m shared out for a few days to other long time partners and he’s okay with that. We made it clear to each guy from the outset, that hubby wouldn’t interfere or take part but he would be interested in being present and watching us having sex if agreed beforehand and also suggested each encounter could be video recorded if they agreed. We also agreed to ask each guy if he was okay with hubby having sex with me beforehand, or would they prefer me to abstain for a few days before…it was their choice and it brought a mixed reaction. I know from experience that some guys love the idea of having sex with a married woman as if it’s almost a taboo subject… having access to a woman’s body that they believe belongs to another guy ‘forbidden fruit’ and all that, and is carrying her husband’s fresh semen!We also gave each guy a choice of venue, perhaps our marital bed or at least somewhere that would be considered neutral like a hotel. After a great deal of consideration Mecidiyeköy Escort Bayan we both agreed on the guys we had initially chosen and felt the best way forward was to chat to them again and see just how interested they were and also if they had any ideas we hadn’t thought about. Over the next few weeks we had met up socially with each of our guys and agreed preferences and boundaries with them. This also gave me an opportunity to get to know my potential lovers on a personal level and to decide if I wanted to go ahead. My initial thoughts were that one of the guys just wasn’t a suitable candidate. He clearly didn’t fancy me and I felt we just wouldn’t get on so politely we ruled him out and he was replaced with another guy on our list. The other candidates we really enthusiastic and I felt were genuinely exited about what was on offer. Choosing suitable sexual partners for the sole purpose of reviewing my performance sounds rather clinical but in reality was actually really exiting and fun and a bit different from the normal one-to-one experience of meeting a guy or a girl at a party and going off to a private room with them, occasionally with hubby in tow. I wanted to make this a memorable experience for each of these guys and meeting them gave me an opportunity to ask them what they preferred and how I could fulfil their personal requirements. As part of the performance review, we asked each of them in turn if they were okay with me describing them personally (without revealing their full names) and publishing their reviews afterwards to which we had full agreement. So who did we choose? I wanted this to be a very pleasurable and personal experience for each guy and as such, I wanted them to feel special and not just making up numbers. We felt it was only fair to be open an honest and share our choices with each of the guys in fact some of them knew each other anyway. I was determined that I was going to give them the very best of me! The Shortlist: Shortlist:•Tim age 52•Laura age 46•Adam age 23•James age 39•Darryl age 41 and possibly friend!•Matt age 53•Scott age 47•Dave age 73•Dan age 37I’m going to briefly describe each of our choices purely for information: Tim: Age 52, quite tall at 6’2” dark haired and little balding on top. He’s not athletic by any means, he’s quite a large powerful build at about 225lbs and a gregarious personality. He’s quite the gentleman and instantly likeable . Always attends private parties with his very attractive bisexual wife Laura who quickly mentioned that Tim is very hirsute with lots of dark hair covering his body….. It’s probably all that testosterone! He’s quite experienced in the wife sharing scene and known to be very sexually satisfying according to his wife who told us we wouldn’t be disappointed as he’s quite big! His wife often spends time with other club members so he fully understands the sexual pleasures of sharing his gorgeous wife rather like my hubby. Tim was actually our first choice for quite a few reasons, we have both met him several times socially and he was exited about being asked and loved our ideas… I could tell he was very attracted to me which is always a good sign. Preferences: After talking to his wife Laura, Tim was happy to spend the night with me and because we knew him quite well, we agreed he could take hubby’s place in our marital bed and he readily accepted hubby’s presence in the bedroom proving he didn’t interfere. He asked me to wear black lingerie and stockings when we were in bed and had no objections to me having sex with hubby beforehand. We discussed the use of condoms and he suggested he would supply his own in his favourite size…large! He asked if there was anything I would particularly enjoy and was there anything I wasn’t prepared to do for him. He was exited about undressing me in front of hubby and he told me he’d love to use a dildo and vibrator on me during our love making. To satisfy his desires we agreed that nothing would be “off limits” Laura: Yes!.. if you’ve been paying attention you will know that she’s Tim’s wife. We hadn’t originally thought of asking a woman but as we were chatting to Tim, it just came up in our conversation. Knowing I’m bisexual as well, Laura was quite receptive to hubby’s suggestion that she might like to join us. She’s a little younger than her husband at 46 years old and such an attractive mature woman. As soon as I met Laura I felt we had an immediate emotional connection right from the start and she was obviously very comfortable with spending some time with me. At 5’ 3” she’s a similar height to me and has curves in all the right places! and she has delightfully large breasts like me. We gave Laura the choice of how she wanted to spend time with me and she felt she would like to spend the night with me in our marital bed like her husband Tim. I’m so exited about the idea of having sex with both Tim and his wife! Adam: The youngest of our choices and at 23 years old was a bit of a wild card. He is of average height, rather skinny build with long blond hair and very sexy brown eyes. Not always, but usually attends the club scene on his own. He’s spoken to us once or twice in the last few months and he’s always been very polite and open. Note: Adam was actually an odd choice for us as he’s quite young and I felt he appeared inexperienced. I’ve not had sex with such a young guy for quite some time so the idea was really exiting! He seems a little nervous in some ways but he was extremely enthusiastic and exited to pleasure an older woman like me. Although very articulate, of all our participants I felt Adam was more of a risk owing to his young age and lack of experience. He’d clearly been attracted to me and being way over twice his age, I was conscious of being perceived as a mother figure to him and he was definitely fixated on my large breasts! He was keen to explain that he loved my mature womanly figure and he thought I’d love his 7.5” long but quite thin penis! Hubby really felt Adam would be a good choice and was keen to hear the views of a younger very energetic man….was he a good choice? well I liked the idea of his long penis that’s for sure, I could almost feel it inside me already! Preferences: He was happy to meet up with me in a hotel for the afternoon and left dress choice up to me. He wasn’t happy about the idea that hubby would be present and said he would prefer me to abstain from sex for a couple of days before we met up to ensure my vagina was in peak condition for him. We agreed that he would need to use condoms unless he agreed to testing first.James: at 39 was an easy choice. A very confident and active club member and again someone we have seen around before always with a partner. Easy going and quite a muscular build. He works out most days and keeps himself very fit and toned. Notes: James Escort Mecidiyeköy is the sort of sexual partner women dream about and based on physique alone I was extremely exited at the prospect of spending some intimate time with him. In fact I was slightly overawed that James even wanted to take part with a mature woman like me. He described his love of doggy style sex and described his penis as above average although he was a little shy about telling us.Preferences: James agreed to spend the afternoon with me in a hotel and was quite happy if hubby wanted to watch. He would prefer me to be naked for him and was quite okay about me having sex with hubby beforehand, even suggesting he would particularly enjoy sex with hubby’s semen already in my vagina! Again we agreed that condoms would be needed unless he agreed to be tested first.Darryl: An attractive rather rugged 41 year old black guy. At way above average height and build he’s physically quite a big guy, with very smooth ebony skin. Darryl is very respectful and rather intense but very confident, he exudes sexuality from every pore of his very black flawless skin.Notes: Darryl is the sort of guy that takes a little while to fully understand but has to be one of the sexiest guys I’ve ever met, his quietly confident personality and easy smile was more than suited to taking part in our little adventure and I felt really aroused even just talking to him and imagining what he might like me to do for him. He has the ability to make you feel so special! He mentioned that as a well known bull, he’s had sex with a great many white women and satisfied them all with his 9” penis…OMG! Although certainly not the first black guy I’ve had sex with, I was really exited at spending some intimate time with him and couldn’t wait to run my hands over his smooth black skin and see how deep he could penetrate me! Preferences: Daryl told me he loved pleasuring mature white women and absolutely loved my curvy body and milky white skin! He would prefer me to wear a white basque or babydoll and stockings to begin with. Hubby and me agreed straightaway that we could spend the night together in a hotel and he said he would prefer me to refrain from sex with hubby beforehand. He joked that I wouldn’t be getting much sleep! He also suggested that hubby might like to watch and see how’s he going to pleasure me. He was ok about using a condom if I wanted but left the choice to me and said it was usually expected anyway, but did warn me that if it burst he would continue fucking me!Daryl also mentioned that he has a black friend who would also be very interested in fucking me as a threesome. Although his friend would be a complete stranger to me it did sound quite exiting! I told him I’d give that idea some serious consideration! Matt: At 53 Matt is the same age as me and clearly very experienced. This fair haired German guy at just 5’ 8” he’s not a particularly attractive guy in the conventional sense with rather sharp features, he doesn’t have a particularly toned body but he does have a certain charm which I found rather attractive.Notes: He’s a rather dark and brooding character and has something of a reputation among regular group members as a rather demanding but satisfying experienced lover. He told me he has an average size penis at 6.5” but quite large hanging balls which is always a plus in my eyes especially if he’s a big cummer! Preferences: Matt had no preference about venue so we agreed on a hotel. He was however insistent that I refrained from regular sex before we met up, but less pleased about fucking me with a condom, so he’s agreed to be tested in advance.Scott: A well built larger than life Canadian guy, who at the age of 47 surprisingly told me that he wasn’t particularly experienced. He regularly attends private parties with an older woman but he’s not into the club scene. He’s quite tall and towers over me when we’ve chatted. He’s dark haired with a stubble beard, although he has promised to shave for our encounter which suits me fine as I don’t like beards, I would describe him as being a little rough and ready in appearance. Notes: lovely personality and although fairly quiet and perhaps a little self-conscious, I think he could be a rather good sexual partner and I’m looking forward to spending some quality time with him. Preferences: Scott looked quite embarrassed about choosing a suitable venue and agreed a hotel room would be best. He told hubby that’s his cock is quite big but loves to give oral pleasure! He specifically wanted me to wear a white babydoll and stockings as he enjoyed the virginal look! He also asked if I would refrain from sex beforehand to enhance his pleasure. Dave: Aged 73 Dave was the oldest guy in our shortlist. Average height and a rather wiry build with greying short hair and piercing pale blue eyes. Dave was known to me and hubby as a regular guest at private parties and he had asked hubby in the past if he would mind if he had sex with me! Conveniently hubby had forgotten to mention this fact to me as he thought he might be a little too old for me. Those who know me should know I really like older guys as I love their maturity and character and hubby should have known that. Dave clearly wasn’t short of energy or enthusiasm and absolutely loved the idea of spending the night together at his home. He even asked if I might consider allowing him to become a regular partner in the future.Notes: I felt Dave was more than capable of exploiting my inner desire to have very passionate sex with a mature and very experienced guy. He was well known among other guests as a very passionate and considerate lover and I could easily sense his desire to pleasure me!Preferences: Dave was very particular about wanting to undress me and expected me to present myself as a very feminine woman in a pretty dress with white lacy panties and bra. As a widower, he was insistent I spent the night at his home and had no preference about me having sex before our session. He suggested to hubby that if we enjoyed each other, perhaps he would consider loaning me to him for a few days. Well perhaps something to think about. Dan: A very interesting but rather quiet 37 year old guy. We had met up with Dan a couple of times at private parties over the last year and got to know him and his pretty but older wife. We discovered he had a real interest in more mature women and was delighted to be asked. His wife regularly had sex with other male guests. His initial thoughts were that perhaps I might be interested in a threesome with his wife. It was a very tempting offer and after giving it a great deal of thought we decided on a compromise arrangement. We invited them to our home so Dan and his wife could spend the night with us both in different bedrooms to begin with and perhaps his wife could join Dan and myself in the morning while hubby watched. Dan reassured us he would be gentle and respectful with me. As a younger man he also went on to say he had a larger than average penis (7.5”) and he had produced a lot of semen and was well known for this. He insisted on no condoms to give me his full pleasure of a vagina full of his thick semen!